Also I am not equipped or healthy enough to hear the details of your abuse. I have had a couple people, unsolicited, tell me all the details in a message and I cannot handle that. If I ask what specifically happened to you in detail, please do tell. I appreciate those who have reached out and just said something like, "I have also been sexually abused". That is fine. But details, and unloading on me is not okay. It is triggering as fuck, and makes me feel out of control, and that I somehow need to fix you. It is not good for me or you, and not appropriate. I know people generally mean well when they do that, but that is what a therapist is for, or a good friend. Not me.
I am currently very angry right now. About my situation in life and everything that has happened to me. If that makes you uncomfortable, then it is best you steer clear of me. It is a phase and it is very VERY appropriate given my situation, and VERY healthy I am feeling this way and processing it. So sit with me and love me, or come back later.
Thanks for reading.